moved on to dinner where I am now eating steak fries smothered in tobasco, bacon and blue cheese and drinking a pink beer called “bOOb check”

don’t let the bourbon fool you. I am not a hipster…I am more hipster adjacent.

bourbon w/ a proper water back. welcome to date night.

bourbon w/ a proper water back. welcome to date night.

from the garden of my friend, Julia.

from the garden of my friend, Julia.

I slept for ten hours. best birthday gift ever.

birthday love

birthday love

Asker Portrait
eyesopenwide asked:Happy happy birthday!!!

thank you so much, love!  it was the best day! photos to come!!!  xoxo la

this was not the year i thought it would be.

i am older, definitely. wiser, perhaps. exhausted from our ups and downs and hopeful for what is to come.

maybe tomorrow, i’ll be back here with tales of surprises and hidden delights, until then…the sky is my favorite color of blue and the moon has arrived in the shape of a smile. it’s cool outside.

i’ve spent time, as my birthday looms large, with my favorite book: ’the collected poetry of nikki giovanni.’

i love her. i love how she uses language and pulls inspiration from ordinary things. for instance…

‘i am cotton candy on a rainy day
the sweet soft essence
of possibility’

see what i mean?

this ‘essence of possibility’ is what propels us forward; the potential is at once beautiful and terrifying. no matter what has come before, i know this is going to be a very happy year. i have so much to be grateful for…

off-the-cuff compliments

freedom of the press

artistic license

thanksgiving dinners

dancing in the afternoon front of kids

breakfast

doggin’ the bed

butter cream frosting

thinking caps

pb&j

adjectives

training wheels

sock monkeys

things not always being what they seem

not being ‘too grown up’ for anything

instagram

mickey mouse

earth, wind & fire

being held soft and close

twilight lingering at the end of the day

‘accidentally on purpose’

the hokey-pokey

hoops & yoyo

fortune telling

unhurried hours

killer scrabble games

secret hiding places,

james taylor

holding hands

flying dreams

tuesday afternoons

sneezes

tumblr friends

tears of joy

acoustic guitars

things turning out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out

the art of compromise

fresh flowers

pedicures

see’s candy

hot coffee

love stories

french blue

cats who come when you call

fireworks

the tiny pancakes formed from batter falling from the ladle

no line for the bathroom

hard workers

little girls

brown sugar

being swept away by sheer delight

pale pink light tumbling into morning

conversations on paper

the impossible encounters that live in the imagination and somehow become reality

the knowledge that we are not responsible for those we love - we are responsible for those who love us.


to those who love me, who wish me well and who celebrate my birth - thank you! i have been warmed by you in many ways. talk about ‘amazing grace’…

wonderdad made me what my momma use to make me for my birthday…Thanksgiving!!

wonderdad made me what my momma use to make me for my birthday…Thanksgiving!!